Private Work
One-on-one coaching & bodywork
Coaching · Somatic · Bodywork
Deep, sustained work for people navigating divorce, intimacy, identity, and the threshold between who you were and who you're becoming.
Tony Holmes · The Love Warrior
You were never broken.
Embodied coaching, intimacy work, mediation, bodywork, and practice for people navigating consequential life and relationship thresholds.
Where do you begin?
Find your entry point.
Every path here leads to the same place — a more honest, embodied, and alive version of you.
Intimacy & Tantra
Sacred intimacy & tantric practice
Tantra · Sacred Intimacy · Men's Work
For humans ready to move beyond performance and into genuine erotic and relational aliveness.
Djedi Dojo
Cohort-based practice & training
Practice · Community · Embodiment
A living curriculum for folks who want to train — not just talk — their way into a more coherent life.
SOLO Dojo
Wednesday solo practice — live Zoom
Practice · Weekly · Solo
A live, twice-monthly Wednesday evening practice for people who want a consistent, guided solo practice. Six sessions across three months. $150 total — one payment, no recurring charge.
Organizations
Organizational & leadership work
Leadership · Culture · Teams
Bringing embodied intelligence and relational depth into organizational life.
Speaking
Speaking & public presence
Speaking · Keynote · Facilitation
Tony speaks on embodiment, gender expression, intimacy, and the inner life of leadership.
Next Threshold Private Immersions
Couples · Retreat · Worldwide
Intensive private retreats for couples at a crossroads — held in extraordinary places around the world.
About Tony
Background · Training · Approach
Twenty years of practice, training, and showing up for humans at the edge of their lives.
Find your threshold.
A short assessment that maps where you are and points you toward the right next step.
Couples · Retreat · Worldwide
Next Threshold Private Immersions
Intensive private retreats for couples at a crossroads — held in extraordinary places around the world.
Background · Training · Approach
About Tony
Twenty years of practice, training, and showing up for humans at the edge of their lives.
Somatic Experiencing Practitioner
Certified Mediator
Sacred Intimacy Practitioner
20+ Years of Practice
Current invitations
Open now. Limited availability.
About Tony
Twenty years at the threshold.
Tony Holmes is a somatic coach, intimacy practitioner, mediator, and embodiment teacher. He works with men navigating divorce, intimacy, identity, and the deeper questions of a conscious life.
Feel It Before You Decide
Free Open Circle on Zoom
Wed Oct 21 & Thu Oct 29 · 7:30 PM CT / 5:30 PM PT · 90 minutes
Stay connected
Invitations, cohort openings and field notes from Tony. No spam.
Ready to begin?
The threshold is already here. The only question is whether you cross it consciously.