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The Love Warrior

YOU WERE NEVER MEANT TO PERFORM A LIFE.
YOU WERE MEANT TO EMBODY ONE.

Embodied transformation, sacred intimacy, and mystery-school training for those ready to stop performing and start inhabiting their lives.

YOU MAY RECOGNIZE YOURSELF HERE

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You've done the therapy, the workshops, the self-help — and something still feels missing.

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You want more aliveness, depth, and erotic truth in your life and relationships.

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You're moving through a threshold — divorce, loss, a major life change.

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You want to stop performing and start inhabiting your life.

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You're ready for a path that works with the body, not just the mind.

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You want to be initiated, not just informed.

The question is not always "What is wrong?" Sometimes the better question is:

If any of this lands — you're in the right place.

Where do you begin?

CHOOSE YOUR DOOR

PRIVATE WORK

Something in my life, body or relationship needs attention now.

Individual threshold work · Couples work · Next Threshold · Separation & divorce support · Shamanic Massage · Private immersions

EXPLORE PRIVATE WORK

PLEASURE DOJO

I want more aliveness, pleasure, embodied intimacy and erotic truth.

Open Circles · The Spark · E.R.O.S. Reset · Pleasure Alchemy · Erotic Noir · Pleasure Dojo Training

ENTER THE PLEASURE DOJO

DJEDI DOJO

I want a deeper path of self-knowledge, energy, initiation and practice.

I AM (90-day initiation) · Bay Area cohort · Chicagoland cohort · Open Circles

EXPLORE I AM

SOLO DOJO

I want an ongoing practice for becoming more fully myself.

The Wednesday Practice · SOLO Compass · Every Other Wednesday · Live + self-guided

BEGIN SOLO DOJO

Outcomes

WHAT BECOMES POSSIBLE

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Hear your own signal more clearly.

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Make decisions with greater coherence.

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Love your body so that you can inhabit your life more fully.

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Develop consent as a felt sense.

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Move through relationship transitions with dignity and direction.

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Stop performing desire and start feeling it.

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Become someone your nervous system trusts.

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Know what you want — and be able to ask for it.

Open now

CURRENT INVITATIONS

THE PLEASURE DOJO OPEN CIRCLE

Free · Zoom · October 21 and October 29, 2026

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DJEDI DOJO: I AM

90-day initiation · November 2026 · Berkeley Hills + Evanston

APPLY FOR I AM

SOLO DOJO — THE WEDNESDAY PRACTICE

Six live sessions · Every Other Wednesday · $150 founding rate

BEGIN SOLO DOJO

SHAMANIC MASSAGE

Evanston · 60 / 90 / 120 min · Book online

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PLEASURE ALCHEMY AT ESALEN

December 21–25, 2026 · Big Sur

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