Next Threshold · Private Immersions
Some thresholds require
more than a conversation.
A private, multi-day immersion with Tony Holmes — designed for couples at a genuine turning point.
Begin the ConversationWhat This Is
Not a retreat. Not a workshop.
A private passage.
The Next Threshold Private Immersion is a rare, unhurried experience — designed for two people who are ready to move through something significant together.
Tony works with one couple at a time, in a private setting, over multiple days. The work is somatic, relational, and deeply personal. It is not a seminar. It is not group work. It is not a spa weekend.
It is a designed passage — built around where you actually are, what you are actually navigating, and what is genuinely possible between you.
The destination is chosen to support the work. The work is designed to meet the threshold.
Who This Is For
This is for couples who are ready.
Couples at a genuine threshold — not a crisis, but a turning point
Partners who have done personal work and are ready to go deeper together
Those who want more than a retreat — they want a real passage
Couples navigating a significant life transition: empty nest, career change, relocation, loss, renewal
Partners who sense something important is possible between them and want support to reach it
This is not for couples in acute crisis who need emergency support. It is for those who are stable enough to go deep — and ready to.
What Is Included
Every immersion is designed for you.
Pre-immersion consultation to understand where you are and what you are navigating
Customized immersion design — no two are identical
Daily facilitated sessions with Tony (typically 2–4 hours)
Somatic and embodied practices tailored to the couple
Integration time built into each day
Private access to Tony throughout the immersion
Post-immersion integration support
Travel, accommodation, and logistics are arranged separately. Tony works with you to identify settings that match the nature of your immersion.
Your Guide
Tony Holmes
Tony Holmes has spent more than 30 years working at the intersection of the body, relationship, and transformation. He is a somatic practitioner, ordained minister, and the founder of The Love Warrior.
He has worked with individuals and couples navigating the full range of human experience — from profound grief to profound aliveness. His work is grounded, embodied, and deeply personal.
Tony does not work from a script. He works from presence — meeting each couple where they actually are, and accompanying them toward what is genuinely possible.
Where We Go
Extraordinary settings for extraordinary work.
The setting is not incidental. Place carries its own intelligence. Each destination is chosen for what it offers the work.
The Garden Isle
Kauai
Ancient valleys, dramatic sea cliffs, and rainforest stillness. Kauai holds a particular quality of silence that invites deep listening — in the relationship, in the body, and in what has been waiting to be said.
Valley Isle
Maui
Volcanic landscapes meeting warm Pacific waters. Maui offers both expansiveness and intimacy — the feeling of being held by something vast while attending to what is most tender between two people.
Northern California
Nevada City
Old-growth forest, river canyons, and the quiet of the Sierra Nevada foothills. For couples who want to go inward — away from noise, into the kind of stillness that makes honest conversation possible.
Pacific Coast
Mexico
Private villas, warm water, and the unhurried rhythm of the Mexican coast. A setting that invites the body to soften and the relationship to breathe.
Caribbean
Jamaica
Lush mountains meeting turquoise water. Jamaica carries a particular aliveness — a warmth that moves through the land, the people, and the air itself. A place for couples ready to feel more.
Additional destinations available by conversation. Tony works with couples to identify the setting that best serves their immersion.
Investment
Priced by conversation.
Because every immersion is designed specifically for the couple — the duration, the destination, the depth of work — investment is discussed directly.
Immersions typically range from 3 to 7 days. Tony works with a small number of couples each year.
If you are asking whether this is for you, it probably is.
“There are moments in a relationship that require more than good intentions and a weekend away. This is for those moments.”
— Tony Holmes
Begin Here
Start the conversation.
This form goes directly to Tony. There is no sales team. He will respond personally to every inquiry that feels like a genuine fit.
Next Threshold Private Immersions are facilitated personal development and somatic practice experiences.
They are not psychotherapy, medical care, crisis intervention, or a substitute for licensed mental health support.
No specific outcome is guaranteed. Participation is voluntary and requires mutual agreement on scope and expectations.