Work With Tony Holmes
Every offering begins with a threshold.
Private bodywork, tantra-informed intimacy, embodied relationship work, attunement practice, and organizational programs in Evanston and Chicago.
Each offering begins with recognizing what you are experiencing — before describing what Tony does.
All Offerings
Body
Shamanic Massage
Responsive, consent-centered bodywork shaped around the person rather than a fixed routine. Single sessions from $150. Embodied Care Reserves available.
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The Spark
The primary paid front door for individual private work. A private two-hour embodied experience for people ready to reconnect with desire, curiosity, creativity, and aliveness. $333.
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The Next Threshold: Solo Edition
A three-session somatic and embodied experience for individuals. Your life still works. But does it still feel alive? Enter through The Spark and your $333 is credited.
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Duo E.R.O.S. Reset
The paid relationship entry experience. A private tantra-informed, somatic, and relational experience for couples. 2 hours. $333 per couple. If you continue, your $333 applies toward The Next Threshold.
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The Next Threshold: Couples
A private three-session E.R.O.S. Reset for couples. Somatic, relational, and tantra-informed work for partners ready to rediscover aliveness together. Founding investment: $1,333.
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Djedi Dojo
A living practice school devoted to frequency, attunement, embodied presence, energetic discernment, ritual, ethics, and responsible practice. It is not coaching. It is a path of practice.
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Pleasure Alchemy at Esalen
Dec 21–25, 2026 at the Esalen Institute. An immersive retreat exploring pleasure, aliveness, embodiment, and transformation.
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Speaking & Organizational Work
Leadership development, facilitation, and organizational programs for institutions. Pricing by conversation.
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Tantra-informed work for individuals and couples
For individuals and couples seeking greater aliveness, connection, embodiment, and relational depth, Tony offers tantra-informed intimacy experiences grounded in consent, presence, sensation, curiosity, and clear professional boundaries.
The Spark
Private tantra-informed embodiment for individuals.
The Next Threshold: Solo Edition
Three-session somatic and embodied experience for aliveness and personal transition.
The Next Threshold: Duo E.R.O.S. Reset
Private tantra-informed couples experience.
Private intimacy and embodiment work
Custom engagements for individuals and couples.
What threshold are you navigating?
Begin with a private conversation to find the right path.
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